Clients have stated:

NB!! It is orgasmeakademiet.dk’s privacy policy to assign its clients fake names. All texts mentioned above have been placed here unchanged, as the person wrote them. Only the person’s original name has been changed for their privacy – Most of the time with an alias that they have chosen them selves.
I would be happy, if you feel that you would like to describe, what you have experienced in one of my sessions. Mail your description to me and your preferred pseudonym. Thank you very much for your contribution!
First of all right below are the client’s statements about sexual therapy-sessions and lectures:

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Charlotte, Independent negotiator, 39 years, Bagsværd: Hello Pia, Thank you very much for an exciting, instructive, different and informative event last week – We are a group of 12 women who have been keeping touch for 15 years and hired you to make a presentation about your work at one of our women nights in April 2007.
We were clearly of the opinion that we had a lot of “gifts” to bring home with us from you, with a new approach to our lives and our lower parts – and there is no doubt that you are passionate about your work! Thank you for that. One of the girls has actually just been thanking me for the event, since she has been having the week of her life, among other things as partial element that had a good event. So you should have that with you as well. I wish you a great and sunny summer with plenty of great experiences. At least you earned it.

Tanja, 32 years, married mother of two and nurse, Næstved: Dear Pia, Thank you for last night, in February 2005 you lecture about personal development through working with ones sexuality. As I promised yesterday, I am writing down my experiences. I belong to one of those, who went to your lecture with very mixed feelings, - please don’t let her come to close.
Sexuality for me has always been very private and I am much closed about it. For me it is mostly connected to the psychological aspect, since I have always been living more in my head. And I have never really paid that much attention to my sexuality, one time a month must be enough! I almost fell of my chair when Pia stated: “One orgasm a day, keeps the doctor away.” Gradually as Pia warmed up her speech and I started to relax, (it was far from the porn that I dreaded), I found out what she meant.
Pia is a both caring and loving person, who very clearly wants all the best for others and her lecture comes straight from the heart. At the same time she is both smart and intelligent to listen to, and she lifted 10 tons from my shoulders, I was totally normal, most of us have been raised with our hands above the bed sheets, so it can’t be so weird that sex has become taboo to many. To me this lecture has really become a turn-about in my life. Thank you very much Pia, for being so open about sex, and thank you for opening my eyes and heart to how important it is. Best regards Tanja (The one the drove you to the trainstation)

Allan Hansen, CAD-consultant, 42 years, Rødovre: It was actually a bit of a random impulse that made me contact Pia Struck when I did. But Pia has opened up a new world to me. A world where you experiment, ask questions and work on developing one self. I was in a ditch after a relationship that had lasted for 8 years. My situation wasn’t all that different from so many others’s. Today I am happy, that the relationship ended. I have had plenty of great relationships since then, and my quality of life has never been this high before. That I feel so good today is in a very high degree due to my visits with Pia Struck and the things she knowledgeable started in me. Pia taught me how I should work with myself to keep on going and how to find my way in the jungle of personal development offers. Today I make use of the different offers that suits my taste and fit my temper. Furthermore Pia has inspired me to pick up a bunch of new habits, that I get a great deal of joy from. I feel good about my new situation and at the thought, that I will always be able to contact Pia again. Great thanks to Pia Struck.

Peter, 48, Programmer from Northern Zealand: Dear Pia, Thank you for a somewhat different experience, the day that I went to Introduction to swinger club. Sadly it was only us at this introductory evening, you, as an outstanding”instructor”, and I, as a curious guest. Before we entered swingerclub #1, you gave me a very good introduction to the life of a swinger, and you could somehow in a wonderful way and with great enthusiasm tell about the joy it means to swingers, to have sex with each other. It dawned on me that several couples went to a swingerclub, solely to have sex with each other, while other couples invited another or two with them on the sheet. We were given a warm welcome by the beautiful hostess of the evening; you showed me the intimate rooms, where there was plenty of space to let one self go intimately. It was clear that only fantasy could set a limit for what could happen. We were the first ones there, but later three couples arrived along with some lonely guys. Only dressed in a towel, together with people that I had never met before, I sat and watched a porno movie. While the movie was on, people chatted cozily. I sat next to a woman who had her boyfriend on the other side. With sensitive hands he touched her intimate places and sometimes they kissed very intimately. She was a good looking woman and I was tempted to join in, I asked and she gave me a warm smile, while she shook her head. This rejection showed me with all clarity that none of the guests that visit a needs to feel like they are being pressured to do something that they don’t want to do, or said in another way; I would never be worried about bringing my beloved to a swinger club. There was through and through a good atmosphere in the club, but it was clear that single men felt more compelled to visit swinger clubs than single women and that is a shame. It is very safe to go there. Pia, thank you for a lovely evening, you did very well.

Jan, Culture director, 48 years, Østerbro: Dear Pia Struck, I am the silent gray-haired culture director that visited you the Friday in December 2003. And I will already now give an excited feedback on a great experience of opinion, progress and wisdom in you therapy.
You have a fantastically exciting profile (I have it from your brochure), and it doesn’t surprise me, that you also are a member of Mensa. That probably explains that you could answer all of my questions even before I raised them!
I am well into the training, both of the Pelvic floor muscle and the sensitivity, and I look very much forward to moving on. When I do, I will give you a report of my experiences – and also something about the club membership that we spoke about. But under all circumstances: My sexuality will (luckily) never be the same again. Best regards, Jan.

Bent, 60 years, engineer, Næstved: I was extremely luck to meet Pia at a time in 1999, where I really had a need, and had a series of sessions distributed over approximately 2 years. Big thanks.
Earlier I had discovered myself that I had been living with a bad proportion between my inner feelings and beliefs, and my outer relationships. I had lived with standards and boundaries that weren’t my own. I married early without prior experiences, meaning with my first sex-partner. I had the desire and the need to be with more, but it was forbidden and was oppressed by what you could call “forced monogamy”. But foremost I have myself to thank for that.
But at some point it didn’t work for me any more (frustration and energy built up over a long long time) and I started to go out and do something about it actively. I didn’t wish for it to be something secret, and not necessarily to get divorced, but it is hard to change your behavior and to break old patterns in a high age. Pia was able to help here with sessions and intuition, so that I could figure out more connections between causes and patterns and not least of all that I was in my right to choose for myself my actions and my sexuality, in other word strengthened me in the things that I wanted and were reliable.
And Pia could tell about the perspectives and the possible consequences in my relationship.
Pia helped by using role-play and among other things also to “bury an old ghost”. It was about an applied guilt that as child had given me an unrealistically great respect for women. Great!
Many of the things that Pia suggested and said really work in the long run. I was given a lot of ideas to work with. The short version is that I up till now (Nov 2003) have had three female friends and am hoping to soon meet a fourth one. We are of course created to be creatures of love.

Maria, 22 years, Kolding: I was really nervous, when my boyfriend and I was supposed to meet with Pia to have couples therapy. I think that is, that it is embarrassing to have problems in a relationship in such a young age. My boyfriend and I were standing with some sexual problems that we couldn’t get rid of our selves, but Pia gave us the right inspiration to move on. Pia took us in with open arms. She radiates an incredible calmness and confidentiality that made me open up for the feelings, that only a chosen few have been allowed to share in. There was nothing, which was embarrassing to say, neither did anything have to be explained, since Pia is very understanding and is very good at putting herself in ones place. We became very clear about several things in our relationship, among other things what our conflicts really were about. It was a very personal, intense and very giving session to our relationship, both as a couple and as individuals. With help from some new tools, we were given the opportunity to develop our selves even more, which I perceive as a very great gift. My boyfriend and I have found each other one more, as we were, before it went bad for us. I don’t doubt that I will use Pia the next time that I have the need!

Clea, 25 Pharmaceutical student, Århus: I contacted Pia Struck, because I was suffering from vaginism. Because of this I was having problems with my sexuality in general – This means that I would almost never have a desire for anything sexual. For over 2 years I had fought the vaginism on my own and I didn’t feel that I was making any progress. The problem seemed unmanageable and sometimes I would feel totally lost. I felt embarrassed about my situation and it was hard to talk to others about something this private. Therefore it was a great deal for me to make an appointment with a therapist. To my relief there was nothing to worry about, because already the first time that I spoke with Pia over the phone, I got the impression, that she was an incredibly talented and caring woman that I would be able to draw benefit from.
The session with Pia took place in a very pleasant safe and informal way. She gave me some different advice than the ones that I had been given before by for example doctors. In stead of just seeing me as just a person having trouble with her genitals, she took a hold of my personality and worked from that.
We went through a lot in those 2 hours that I was there with her. I listened eagerly to all the good things she said. Since my primary problem was tensions in the genitals, Pia suggested some activities that would help loosen up. “Salsa, riding and belly dancing would be a fun way to enjoy your body.” She said.  Exactly those 3 activities were funnily enough some that I had wanted to do for a while. So I took the advice in with joy. A meeting with a relaxation therapist was also brought up, but because of financial reasons, I decided to let that one lie at first. The suggestion to do plenty of pinching exercises with focus on relaxation did not surprise me, since it was something that I had been told and had read about before. It was supposed to help with granting control over the muscles that were causing the involuntary spasms in the vagina.
During the session, the topic quickly turned to me and my boyfriend’s sexlife (or lack of it). Because of the vaginism I had, to the frustration of my boyfriend, almost no desire for sex and intimacy. It was the cause of a lot of fights. Pia said that a way to awaken my sexuality would be to subscribe to some erotic magazines for women (“Tidens kvinder” and “Cupido”). Since I was all into dirty magazines, it was something that I immediately went out and bought! They are both entertaining and educational, so it was a really good idea. Pia explained a lot about the importance of masturbation and orgasm – and gave advice and guidance in it. One she urged me to join an orgasm course, so that I could learn a lot about my body and enjoy it fully.
She also explained to me ways that I could be with my boyfriend without it really being intercourse. For example she said that it would be really good if we could lie together and masturbate – or assist by masturbating on each other one at a time. I wasn’t really crazy about that idea at first, but after thinking it through for a while, I could see the reason in it.
We also talked about things such as my family and my personality – Actually we talked about a wide variety of things in a cozy and informative way. I had worked on a web-site about vaginism for some time; this we also talked about. In the last part of the session I was “shaken” by Pia in a rough but caring way. I guess she wanted me to do something actively about my situation. It is of course only me who can do something about it. After the 2 hour session I walked away with a giant smile on my lips, and a thousand thoughts that were flying around in my head. Yes I had definitely gotten something from the conversation and some things that I can keep working on. A lot of the advice that I got I was able to use right away, and other advice and ideas are some that will take both time and practice.
I was a little skeptic before the session – How much would I actually get from one of these sessions – But today I am happy that I contacted her. I regret that I waited so long before I pulled myself together and got an appointment. So let this be an invitation to all of you that are having a tough time, and want some help. Do something about it as quickly as possible!!!
What I really appreciate about Pia Struck is, that she is very attentive, caring and that she is really enthusiastic about what she does. She has so much warmth and deep knowledge to dole out in a nice personal way.
It has been a great relief to talk to someone about something that is very much taboo. I still have vaginism today and on bad days I can feel quite depressed, but I feel that it is much clearer and that the way towards “healing” isn’t so long. Something that I think is really positive is that I have rediscovered my sexuality again after a 1½ year break – So I want Pia to have credit for that among other things.
I would like to finish of by saying thank you to Pia for all the support and the warmth that she has given me. She is a lovely woman, who has received a special place in my heart.
It was really nice to talk to you on the phone again. I am always filled with warmth, joy and positive energy when I speak with her… It is so nice. I have had a rough patch – but I think my good mood is returning to me again J also thanks to her advice.

Arne, 43 years, head clerk in a bank, Hellerup: I just put my profile on Scor, but haven’t har any response to the add, even though I think it was a little daring and boundary breaking in relation to my prior profiles, which were never responded to either of course. Without dynamite it doesn’t work. Then I got the idea to contact a sexual therapist and through Scor’s web-site I found by chance the sexual therapist Pia Struck. I had probably imagined the therapy room as being a bit like a clinic with an awkward order and white walls, but the room was actually decorated as a warm and cozy living room, where I quickly felt at ease and Pia definitely contributed with her very open and relaxed way. There was no snobby high class looks or cold, professional impersonality.
What I at first said was my problem, is that I haven’t had sexual contact with women for years, except an intimate massage, 3 times during last year, as well as on some occasions having sexual fantasies about men. I have never had anything but a onetime experience sexually – no lasting relationships! These circumstances do, that I feel that I live an increasingly boring single life with failing faith in myself, both when it is about having sex, increasing my sexual horizon and getting through the day in a good mood.
Pia meant, that just by looking at me, she could see that I was living an isolated life without many friends. It is not totally correct though, since I have plenty of good friends and a great deal of social contact in my everyday life. But I am many years behind, when it comes to sexual experience and my sexual identity, my market value with the women almost equals 0 at the moment (I would rather be unpopular) and it is urgent to straighten this out. This I can only say is true. Pias advice to me is simply that I have to indulge in my social life even more and it is urgent. She asked me to write down the following: Strengthen and cultivate my social networks – Out among people and be in contact at least for a couple of hours every day. Work on dismantling the filter between me and others. Work on communication skills – work on being confidential. Work on abilities to be on contact. Work on active listening and on taking up at least half of the conversation in a balanced ping-pong kind of way. Sexual playmates, both men and women is a good idea – Especially to train thereby inter human skills. Concretely Pia told me about a organization, which is called www.ACA-Danmark.dk, adult children of alcoholics and of other dysfunctional families that she advices me to take part in, and I will do this, since I have discovered that I have a lot of problems in common with the other members of the organization, for me it is among other things invisibility, silence, self destruction and defeat in discussions and groups. Pia also suggested union work, for example in a board, as a way to create more contacts.
Sexual contacts – both short and long – are extremely important to me at the moment, of both genders even. If a contact add for example is inserted, I should display my situation honestly. It should be clear that I am very inexperienced in the sexual area, and that I seek some sort of training.
From Pia I also received instruction in how to train myself not to come too quickly and how I can get the most from an intercourse. I am most likely ending up as a pretty good lover.
I explained that I used my house in Sweden as often as possible, meaning every other weekend and alone. Being alone too much is exactly the problem, this we agree on. The question is if I should sell the house, if I don’t find anybody to bring up there. Pia mentioned several times during the session that she wished to see me happy – and she gave me a warm goodbye hug. This I wish for her to see. And I am going to show her!

Per, 43 years, administrative director, and writer, Oslo: I had been seeking a conversational partner – independently – a guide – an impartial person. I met an enthusiastic informal, thoroughly dedicated and intelligent woman, who during just one session was good at systematizing my thoughts. Not that I wasn’t capable of doing this myself – but anyway – A lot of the time you don’t see the forest because of all the trees, but she just kept on finding new paths and streams on my little land map. Actually it wasn’t right away that I saw it, but a little after a little my sub conscience was working with patterns of thought, possible structures, and in small glimpses I saw more of a connection between my upbringing, and what consequences it had had later in my life. She is a warm woman, who it is easy to give one self over to. She is a sexual woman who in addition is smart. She is an attractive woman who it is difficult not to open one self to, but you have to solve your own problem – make an effort. She helped me a great deal of the way, and maybe she can help you too – if you can and want to.

Navela, 42 år, healer and clairvoyant, Valby: I have visited many healers and therapists during the last many years. Pia is one of the best, I have visited. First time she started me on so many things that were really good for me and, pushed me further in my personal development and in a good way. She recommended a book that was totally right. I called her later about a person that I was having some trouble with. Her evaluation of this person was totally correct. I usually turn the situation around, so that I am the one giving the therapist therapy – but Pia didn’t take the bait. It is very hard not to.

Sebastian, adult educator, 40 years, Ballerup: After having read an add in “Lys-strejfet”, I chose to participate in a lecture about sexual therapy by Pia Struck. It would later become clear that it was going to be an interesting night, where several aspect of that to contain ones own sexuality came up. It is nice to meet with other curious people in a setting where the person lecturing is doling out from her own extensive knowledge and experiences in the field and where it also is a subject full of taboos that can be discussed freely. To me it was especially interesting to hear about how the feeling-liberation sexual therapy is combined with hypnosis therapy, in a way so that the hidden causes for emotional problems or blockages are conjured up from the subconscious through the hypnosis therapy. It is something that I have been making a use of in a similar way. On basis of my own positive experience I can warmly recommend this technique, since it gives good results and according to time is superior to many other forms of therapy.